- Release Date: 2004
- Runtime: 101 min
- Genre: Drama
- Starring: Mark Ruffalo, Laura Dern, Peter Krause, Naomi Watts ... see all
- Director: John Curran
- Plot: The movie is set in the Pacific Northwest; specifically, Washington state. We know this from a glimpse of a license plate, the craftsman architecture of the two houses, and the... Read more
User Reviews
A Thought-Provoking Film Experience!
Jul 21, 2005
lavatch - imdb.com
Jul 21, 2005lavatch - imdb.com
There was a Bergmanesque quality to "We Don't Live Here Any More," recalling the passionate stories and deep psychological insights into characters in the films of the Swedish auteur filmmaker. Like Bergman, director John Curran offered a sensitive touch to... Full review
A delicate, visceral, and emotionally draining melodrama
Jun 28, 2005
Chris Docker - imdb.com
Jun 28, 2005Chris Docker - imdb.com
A serious and emotionally engaging melodrama that tells of two marriages, of love, friendship, adultery, faithfulness, parenting, and the delicate balance between being true to the spirit within and being responsible about the consequences in the real world.Mark Ruffalo and... Full review
Non-resolved shocking drama
Jun 19, 2005
hakapes - imdb.com
Jun 19, 2005hakapes - imdb.com
I felt so uncomfortable during the whole movie to see how these two marriages dismantle, how love disappears and gives place to indifference, how the only one who loves, Terry (Laura Den, a very credible performance) struggles the most. Though... Full review
provocative drama about discontents of married people
May 02, 2005
antoniotierno - imdb.com
May 02, 2005antoniotierno - imdb.com
Not a heart-wrenching film but illuminates with precision the dynamics of friendship, marriage and adultery. It shows a potent portrait of two couples whose marriages are going to break; has an enormous power and tells some uncomfortable truths. In this... Full review
Real people, real emotions
Dec 28, 2004
rblument-1 - imdb.com
Dec 28, 2004rblument-1 - imdb.com
"We Don't Love Here Anymore," based on two short stories by Andre Dubus, is a pared-down, very effective view of marriage and infidelity. If you are looking for an "entertaining" film, then go elsewhere. Dubus, author of the short story... Full review
Indiscretions of American lives
Dec 18, 2004
anhedonia - imdb.com
Dec 18, 2004anhedonia - imdb.com
Watch this as a double-bill with Mike Nichols' "Closer," and you very well might swear off love, relationships and marriage for a very long time, if not forever.The last screenwriter I'd expect to write a somber, almost Bergmanesque exploration of... Full review
Changing partners
Sep 16, 2004
jotix100 - imdb.com
Sep 16, 2004jotix100 - imdb.com
This is a difficult film to sit through. It presents a lot of morality issues that are unnerving. Andre Dubus' work always asked a lot of questions about human relations like the ones that are presented here from two of... Full review
Dern good film!
Sep 12, 2004
livewire-6 - imdb.com
Sep 12, 2004livewire-6 - imdb.com
If "We Don't Live Here Anymore" had been made in the 1960s, it might have been titled "Jack and Terry and Hank and Edith". To borrow the title of another celebrated 60s film, "We Don't Live Here Anymore" is about... Full review
A Grown-Up Look at Grown-Up Couples
Sep 06, 2004
noralee - imdb.com
Sep 06, 2004noralee - imdb.com
"We Don't Live Here Anymore" is a sophisticated examination of the complexities of the difficult relationship that is contemporary marriage and family. As it takes us awhile in the beginning to figure out who is attached in what couple, Mark... Full review
Ferocious and Biting: Where "Bob & Carol and Ted & Alice" Wind Up in Reality
Aug 14, 2004
Ralph Michael Stein - imdb.com
Aug 14, 2004Ralph Michael Stein - imdb.com
Director John Curran's "We Don't Live Here Anymore" is a continuously sizzling, attention-holding drama about two couples - best friends - who are perched precariously in twisted relationships that threaten their marriages and imperil the security of their children.Jack Linden... Full review
Critics Reviews
| Aug 28, 2008Urban Cinefile
It sounds compelling, but the film plays rather flat.
but that's not to say it's a bad film
It's just that I don't respond to it, even though I appreciate it's a powerful dissection of marriage, with some brutal scenes that ring true.
... Full Review
| May 08, 2007PopMatters
Indie-movie fans may identify him with the drama "We Don't Live Here Anymore," in which he starred as a loutish writer having an affair with his best friend's wife.
You're character is really going to suffer.
... Full Review
| Dec 20, 2006Premiere Magazine
It's a movie that understands the simple pleasure of seeing a good story told well.
Proving that they can, in fact, make 'em like they used to, The Painted Veil is a well-crafted period drama that's propelled by a fine script, lovely location work, and terrific performances by two of our most reliable actors, Edward Norton and Naomi Watts.
... Full Review
| Jul 24, 2006Matchflick
John Curran's direction is also great, and his film is replete with fantastic cinematography and wonderfully...
This movie has a great cast, and I do mean great.
... Full Review
| Sep 27, 2005The Age
There's nothing in We Don't Live Here Anymore to make us want to witness the hurt induced by excruciatingly selfish acts.
The couples share dinner parties and common interests, but hide that they are miserable in their marriages - an underlying truth that drives the sombre tone of the film.
... Full Review
News
We Don't Live Here Anymore
abc.net.au –
2005-06-28
We Don't Live Here Anymore
guardian.co.uk –
2004-10-21
Meet Jack (Mark Ruffalo) and Hank (Peter Krause), a pair of thirtysomething lecturers at a college in New England. Jack is married to Terry (Laura Dern) and Hank is hitched to Edith (Naomi Watts), but Jack is slipping it to... ... Full Article
Looking at the dark side of marriage
roanoke.com –
2004-09-25
Early on in "We Don't Live Here Anymore," a housewife named Edith tells of going to the zoo with her daughter, where the sight of a caged ape made her cry. ... Full Article
Shorts, 9/7.
greencine.com –
2004-09-07
What's more, he argues, at least now that Miramax has trimmed it, Hero doesn't work cinematically, either: "What we get is a succession of highlights with no air in between, a film that's a commercial for itself. ... Full Article
'We Don't Live Here Anymore'
post-gazette.com –
2004-08-27
Friday, August 27, 2004 By John Hayes, Pittsburgh Post-Gazette Both of the couples in John Curran's "We Don't Live Here Anymore" are living passionate, exciting sex lives. Unfortunately, they're living them with each others' spouses. Based on short stories of ... Full Article
'We Don't Live Here Anymore' frustrates by providing no solace, answers
pittsburghlive.com –
2004-08-27
Edward Albee's "Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?" is the template for lacerating, funny, wrenching, moving dramas about academics and their wives baring psyches, snapping at those who presume to get too close and redeeming themselves through need and compassion. ... Full Article

We Don't Live Here Anymore Trailer
where we say goodbye... [we don't live here anymore]
